Holy Prayer

 

 

    “LORD, who may abide in Your tabernacle? Who may dwell in Your holy hill? He who walks uprightly, and works righteousness, and speaks the truth in his heart. (Psalm 15:1-2)

    "but He who called you is holy, you also be holy in all your conduct, because it is written, 'Be holy, for I am holy.'" (1 Peter 1;15-16)

 

   Have you ever had a problem with the fact that we are all called to be holy? It doesn’t mean that we are sinless because we never will be. It does mean that we have been set apart by God because we have accepted Jesus as our Lord and Savior and we are now His ambassadors (2 Corinthians 5:20) and His royal priests (1 Peter 2:9) here on this earth. Not because of anything we have done but for all that He did on the cross!

 

    In Bob Sorge’s book Secrets of the Secret Place, he does a great job of explaining “The secret of holiness.”

 

   “Holiness isn’t latent or inherent to us. It’s derived, it’s something we take on. Only God is holy of Himself; every other creature around His throne is holy only because they’ve gotten close enough that His holiness had gotten on them.

     Holiness is proximity to the throne.

     Get in His presence, He’ll make you holy, too. Not because of who you are, but because of who He is. Not because of who you are, but because of where you are. You minister to the Holy One and now He’s making you holy. I used to define holiness by what we didn’t do, but now I see it derives from what we do do. Holiness isn’t found merely by not doing the works of the world; it’s found in drawing near to the holy flame on the throne. In His presence, anything unholy is burned away and all that’s left is holy, fiery love for the Son of God.

     For the LORD God is a sun (Psalm 84:11). As my Sun, the Lord is my light, my warmth, and the One around whom my life revolves. His nearness brings forth fruit from the garden of my heart. His Spirit waters, His word nourishes, and His countenance warms in a way that causes the fruit of my life to grow. Like a planet around the sun, I want everything in my life to revolve around Christ. I don’t want to be a comet that swings by every 300 years only to return to darkness. And I don’t want to be Pluto, hanging on the furthest fringe. I want to be a Mercury—blazing with the same holy fire that radiates from His face.

   Holiness isn’t clean living. Holiness is a life lived before the throne of God. Holy people cause kings to fear. That’s because they’re not just pure; they’re a living flame that stands at the throne of God.

     If prayer is gasoline, holiness is the spark. When a holy man or woman prays, explosive things happen. Those who burn with a holy love for Jesus are influential in the courts of heaven. Like Elijah, they change things on earth by praying effective prayers that avail much (James 5:16)” (Bob Sorge Secrets pp. 140-143)

 

    What an awesome summary of what it means to be holy and to be used by God to pray for the advancement of His kingdom! I highly recommend Bob Sorge’s book for anyone wishing to improve their prayer life in the “Secret Place”. Now, what has God placed on your heart to pray about? Get to it now!

 

PRAYER

 

1.     Oh, Lord, how I long to know You more intimately and to know that You are my loving Father and precious Savior.

2.     Fill me with Your Holy Spirit that I may be ignited by Your fire to pray earnestly for those people You have put in my life.

3.     Forgive me for my laziness and lack of desire to be about Your business in the home, workplace, and community where You have placed me. 

4.     Yes Lord, I want to be holy just as You are holy, and I know I can only do it if I draw near to You and completely abandon my selfish desires to pursue You, and Your kingdom today.

The Apple of His eye

“Keep me as the apple of Your eye; Hide me under the shadow of your wings.” (Psalms 17:8)

Several times in Scripture we read the term “apple of Your eye,” but what does that mean? It means that God has a special place in His heart for His children. Just as an earthly father or mother looks after the needs of their children, so much more, does our God look after all the needs of His children. He cares about the little things and the big things as well.

    A few years back my wife Miriam was going through a period of  time where she didn’t feel as close to God as she wanted to. She was in the kitchen on a Sunday morning and looked into her cabinet and saw 4 bottles of vanilla that she had bought on a mission trip to Ecuador  6 months prior with the intention of giving to people as gifts, but had not done so yet. Casually she said to herself: “I wish I knew someone who needed vanilla so I can get rid of these bottles of vanilla. I don’t ever bake enough to use them.”

    As we walked into the church that morning we had not gone very far when Carol, a casual friend, touched her on the shoulder and quickly asked: “Hi Miriam, do you have any vanilla? I’m baking a bunch of cakes for my husband's work and I don’t have enough.” Immediately Miriam turned to me and said: “Patrick, quick run home and get all the vanilla that we have in the kitchen cabinet!” We lived only 5 minutes away so I was able to quickly go home, retrieve the vanilla, return and give it to Carol. She was very happy but I believe Miriam was happier!

    Yes, our God does take care of big things in our lives that we often take for granted, like good health, safety for ourselves and our loved ones and I suppose if you sat down and thought about it enough you would be able to remember many occasions when He has come through for you. But, you know what? He is also interested in the small things you are involved with daily! Miriam says that she was suddenly aware that day that our Lord was interested in even the small things, like how to use a few bottles of vanilla!

    Do you know why our Lord is interested in the little things in your life? Because you are the “apple of His eye!” He lives inside you with the presence of His Holy Spirit! Yes, you can talk to Him at any time of the day or night about any subject that is on your heart or mind. So what are you waiting for? What do you need to talk to your Daddy about today? Is it about your job, your children, the loss of a loved one, your spouse, a relative, a situation in your church, or just a desire that is in your heart that is unfulfilled. 

    He has time for you right now! Stop what you are doing, get on your knees, walk outside, or sit on the couch and tell Him what is bothering you. He cares. He is listening, and don’t be surprised when He answers your prayer and don’t be mad if in some cases he says no. You are still the “apple of His eye” even when He doesn’t answer right away like He did for Miriam that day. He will answer, you are His precious child, and you are the “apple of His eye’!

   “O LORD, You have searched me and known me. You know my sitting down and rising up; You understand my thought afar off. You comprehend my path and my lying down, And are acquainted with all my ways. For there is not a word on my tongue, But behold, O LORD, You know it altogether. You have hedged me behind and before, And laid Your hand on me. Such knowledge is too wonderful for me: It is high, I cannot attain it. (Psalms 139:1-6)

PRAY

1. Lord thank You for being such a loving God that You always keep me as the “apple of Your eye” even when I don’t deserve it. You are the faithful One who is always waiting for me when I come to You.

2. Fill me with Your Spirit today so that I can see this day through Your eyes and react to the challenges I face with the right attitude and spirit. 

3. Thank You Lord that I can read such powerful words from the Bible such as those in Psalms 139 that remind me that You know everything about me, and know my needs and are providing for them before I even ask!

    

God's Shadow

“He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High Shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty.” (Psalms 91:1)

   I was paddling my kayak the other day on the lake near where I live. It was a beautiful day with the sun shining, a nice comfortable 80 degree temperature, and a gentle breeze blowing across the water. After about an hour of paddling and enjoying the solitude, only interrupted by an occasional heron or song bird fly by, I was starting to feel a little too warm. I paddled into the shade of a cove I like to visit, and as the kayak glided into the shadow of the trees near the shore, the verse at the top of the page suddenly came to my mind. 

   In our modern day life, we don’t spend so much time thinking about how great shade is until we are out in the sun for a while in the summertime. But oh, what a great feeling of relief came over me as I paddled into the tree’s shadow and felt the sudden cooling from the shade on my body. That is such a great example of what it means to be under the shadow of our Almighty God! But our Lord is so much more than shade from the sun! If we read on in the Psalm we get many more great word pictures of what our Savior has for us:

  “I will say of the LORD, ‘He is my refuge and my fortress; My God, in Him will I trust.’ (verse 2)

    When I lived in Germany many years ago I was able to visit many castles and fortresses from the Middle Ages. My son was even married in the Habsburg castle in Habsburg, Switzerland. If you have seen a castle or other type of fortress, you have seen a good picture of the strength and power of what our God can do for you. You can trust Him because He is the “trustworthy One!”

  “He shall cover you with His feathers, And under His wings you shall take refuge; His truth shall be your shield and buckler.” (verse 4)

   Just like a mother hen protects her chicks, so does our Lord protect His children. We can take refuge under His wings and depend upon Him at all hours of the day or night! He is always on duty.! His truth, the Word of God that we find in His Bible, is our shield and protector. It is our solid rock that we can depend upon! 

  “You shall not be afraid of the terror by night, Nor the arrow that flys by day, Nor of the pestilence that walks in darkness, Nor the destruction that lays waste at noonday.” (verses 5-6)

   In other words you just don’t need to worry about anything if God is on your side! So whatever trial or difficulty you are facing you can count on the Lord to get you through the challenges you are facing! That is Good News! 

PRAY

1. Lord You are “my hiding place”and the only one I can turn to in time or trouble or distress. Thank You that I can always hide under “the shadow of the Almighty” at any time night or day. 

2. Fill me with Your Spirit today and help me to be attentive to Your “still small voice” when you speak to me and guide me on this day’s journey.

3. Help me today, to spend more time in Your presence with prayer so that I will be receptive to Your leading and that I will be quick to obey whatever You tell me I should do to support Your Kingdom.

  

Marriage, part II

“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her, that He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word.” (Ephesians 5:27)

    Like most couples, when Miriam and I were married many years ago we did not have a real clue about what we were doing and what marriage meant. We knew that we loved being together and we had a desire to have each other as our life long partners but we had received no training or mentoring about how we should do it. I mentioned in the last post that we were married in two different churches on the same day. The Catholic service was in Spanish and I understood most of what was said but did not recite any vows. The Prototestant service was in English and although we had rehearsed our vows a couple of times, Miriam was so nervous that when it was her turn to speak she just said: “Babada badas ba ba!” The pastor smiled and I smiled back and he then pronounced us “Man and wife.” The great part was at the reception her mom was so proud of her. She said:  “I didn’t know you could speak English!”

    In Paul Tripp’s Book Marriage, He has some great advice for us, and although laundry lists aren't always the best, the one he has in chapter 17 is outstanding! Here is what he has to say:

   “If you believe that God is wise and true, then you will take seriously what He says, and you will willingly do the things He says are good and because you trust God, you are willing to give yourself to the toil of a good marriage. A marriage of unity; understanding, and love takes a daily commitment to work. 

     Perhaps one of the principal sins of a bad marriage is the sin of laziness. Being committed to the hard work that makes marriage beautiful means to you will:

–Be willing to lose sleep so an important conversation can be completed.

–Listen and consider when you have communicated a concern.

–Care about your spouse’s true needs and gladly work to meet them.

–Work to communicate with your spouse in a way that is patient and kind.

–Look for concrete ways to support and encourage your spouse.

–Do the daily work of forgiveness and reconciliation so that you and your spouse can live in peace. 

–Deal with your marital differences in a way that communicates appreciation and respect. 

–Make time to enjoy your physical intimacy and friendship.

–Look for ways to help your spouse bear the burden of the responsibilities that he or she carries.

–Partner with your spouse in the daily work of maintaining your physical surroundings.

–Never stop pursuing your spouse romantically.

–Do not let the sun go down on a moment of hurt, misunderstanding, or anger.

–Look for ways to encourage and develop your spiritual communion.

–Daily commit to overlooking minor offenses.

–Studiously avoid conflict over things that are not important.

–Speak in a way that gives your spouse grace.

–Encourage and support your spouse in areas of interest that you do not share.

–Be willing to make the sacrifices necessary to keep your marriage a priority.

–Daily search for verbal and nonverval ways to communicate your love. 

–Do not leave a conversation until you have reached unity and understanding.

–Never demand  of your spouse what you are unwilling to give.

–Continually remind your spouse that he or she is not alone in the marriage.

–Do things you wouldn’t normally do simply because they make your spouse happy.

–Fight the business that would get in the way of giving your marriage attention.

–Be willing to sacrifice personal activities  and leisure for the sake of your marriage.

–Work so your spouse has the downtime, rest, and retreat he or she needs.

-Work to build relationships of love and respect with your family.

–Do not stop working until your marriage is all God intended it to be. 

(Paul David Tripp, Marriage, pp. 314-316)

PRAY

1. Oh, Lord, how magnificent You are and gracious to provide marriage for us that allows us to have a partner and a helper to go through the joys and rigors of this world you have created for us.

2. Thank you for the precious person You have provided for me to be my partner for life. Thank you for her/his differences that help me to see You, and life with different eyes and different perspectives. Help me to love her/him the way You love me!

3. I praise You Lord for being such a loving and long-suffering God that is always patient with me and always ready to meet with me and to forgive me of my sin and my stubbornness in allowing You to transform me into someone more like You. 

Marriage

“Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.” (Genesis 2:24)

    In June1971, I asked a beautiful young lady named Miriam to be my wife, and she surprisingly said: Yes! We set our wedding date for March 4th 1972 in Caracas, Venezuela, after I had finished nine months of Army training. We would then move to our first home in Berlin, Germany where I was to be stationed. I didn’t know when I got on that  plane for Caracas that last week in February,1972, but I also had to get married at a civil ceremony on February 26th and that my father-in-law to be, had scheduled two services on March 4th, one Catholic and one Protestant! Miriam’s family was nominally Catholic and I had been raised a Methodist. (His logic was that Miriam could decide at a later date if she wanted to continue as a Catholic or become a Protestant like her husband.)

    So we got married 3 times in one week so, we always have said: “we are so married there is no chance for a divorce ever!” There were never any doubts that we would live up to our vows of “till death do us part” just as my grandparents and parents had. We learned little by little in the coming years the need to always consider the others feelings, desires, and wishes and to work hard at learning to agree to every big or small decision and to especially work hard to raise our children properly. 

    After both of us became born again believers in Christ, we started to become aware of how important it was to have God involved in all our decisions and actions. Of course, we didn’t always do it right. We had been married 25 years when I first understood and began working hard to “love my wife the way Christ loves the Church.”

    We have been married 50 years now and we are just now reading the best book we have ever read about Marriage, appropriately titled: Marriage, by Paul David Tripp (My new favorite author!) The following is a small example of the priceless gems Mr. Tripp shares in this book and I hope it will encourage you in your marriage:

    “Humbly admit your ongoing struggle. The good news of the grace of the Lord Jesus Christ is that you have all the help you will ever need to face whatever is written into your life by the one who is writing your story. But you must humbly face the fact that until you are in his final kingdom, where sin, suffering, and death are no more, you will need his rescue, forgiveness, empowerment, and deliverance moment by moment every day. You will never become a grace graduate! This means there will never be a point in your marriage where you can just lay back, chill out, and coast. As long as sin still lives inside you, with its self-focused, antisocial instincts, you need to live with open eyes, listening ears, and an approachable heart.”

     “None of us is yet all that grace is able to cause us to be. None of our marriages is all that God has designed each of them to be. No one reading this can say, ‘Our marriage is perfect without need of growth in any way.’ We all must confess that every day we struggle with sin. Every day we say and do what is wrong. Every day we desire things we should not have and think things we should not think.. Every day we fall once again into living for ourselves rather than for God and others. We don’t celebrate who God has made our husbands and wives to be in the way that we should…..We want things done our way rather than having to consider another way or being required to admit that there is a way that may be better than ours. We don’t want to admit that there are ways in which our husbands or wives are stronger or more mature than we are….  We don’t like having to live with differences.”

    “Your King and Savior is at work, even when you have given up. He loves you even when you don’t have sense enough to love one another or to love him in return. He is working outside you to produce in you a sense of need, and working inside you to give you what you need. You never face a disappointment, temptation, responsibility, obligation, opportunity, or calling without the resources of his grace. When you are weak and exhausted, his strength gives you reason to go on. When you are confused and don’t know what to do, his wisdom gives you direction. In moments when you feel wounded and alone, he comforts you with his loving and healing hands. When you have lost the way, he seeks you and finds you and brings you back.”

   “Your hope of a long-term, loving marriage is found in one place—God’s love for you. Admit that you need it and then give yourself to celebrating that this God of love has brought you and your spouse together for his glory and your good. And remember, he will not call you to a task without giving you, in his grace, what you need to do it. (Marriage by Paul David Tripp, pp. 258-259)

PRAY

1. Lord, we beseech you to help everyone of us who is married to remember that our spouse has been chosen by You to be our loving partner for life and that we have been chosen by You to be their loving partner also. 

2. Help us to love each other just the way You love us by constantly being patient with our sinfulness, our unfaithfulness, our rebelliousness, and our stubbornness.

3. Fill us with Your Spirit everyday, and draw close to us to help us through every trial, obstacle, and challenge that we face in this fallen world.

     

     

Men Who Paid Freedoms Price

     “Blessed is the nation whose God is the LORD, The people He has chosen as His own inheritance.” (Psalms 33:10, NKJV)

          This July 4th is a good time to sit back and remember just what took place 246 years ago at Independence Hall in Philadelphia, PA. One of the most famous documents of this country (and I dare say, “the world” ) was signed: The Declaration of Independence. We might forget that although these rebels were declaring their independence from England, they were also declaring their dependence on God. The last words of this document declare: 

    "With a firm reliance on the protection of Divine Providence, we mutually pledge to each other our lives, our fortunes, and our sacred honor.”

    “The fifty-six courageous men who signed that document understood that this was not just high sounding rhetoric. They knew if they succeeded, the best they could expect would be years of hardship in a struggling new nation. If they lost, they would face a hangman’s noose as traitors.”

    “Of the fifty-six, few were long to survive. Five were captured by the British and tortured before they died. Twelve had their homes, from Rhode Island to Charleston, sacked, looted, occupied by the enemy, or burned.Two lost their sons in the army. One had two  sons captured. Nine of the fifty-six died in the war, from its hardships or its bullets.”(The Rebirth of America, 1986, Arthur DeMoss Foundation, p.15)

   The men who wrote the Declaration were not wild eyed fanatics but realists who understood just what they had done and were willing to pay the price to establish a new country  conceived in liberty and justice for all, under the protection of their God. John Adams, a future president said: “I am well aware of the toil, and blood, and treasure it will cost to maintain this document, and support this declaration, and support and defend these states; yet through all the gloom I can see the rays of light and glory. I can see the end is worth more than all the means.” Ibid,p.16

   

   These men understood just what they were doing and in whom they were depending on to help them start this new country. Just like the Scripture at the top of this venette states: In order for a nation to be blessed, it needs to be a “nation whose God is the LORD.” It also means that it was not men’s idea to start this nation. 

     It was God who chose this nation to be a lighthouse to the world for the Gospel. Just like Jesus said about his disciples : “You did not choose Me, but I chose you….” (John 15:16a)

The question that we need to ask then is; if He chose me and He chose this nation, what are we doing to live up to His expectations as “cities set upon a hilltop” to carry the Gospel to our neighbor and to the “uttermost parts of the world?”

PRAY

1. Lord, help me to remember today that You are the one who chose me to be your disciple and to live for You every day of my short life.

2. Fill me with Your Spirit so that I may be bold in my witness for You today and look for ways to show Your love to those I come in contact with today.

3. Thank You for dying on that cross so that I might be cleansed of all my sins and be adopted as your precious child!

That's not my dog!

 

 

 

     “Be strong and of good courage, do not fear nor be afraid of them; for the LORD your God, He is the One who goes with you. He will not leave you nor forsake you.” (Deuteronomy 31: 6)

 

    My wife, Miriam, doesn’t care much for animals in her house. She doesn't like the hair all over or the occasional "wet dog smell" you have to live with from time to time. We owned two dogs during our first 15 years of marriage but not since. One day, ten years after we were dog-free, her good friend said that she had an appointment to take her son’s dog to the vet but she had another conflict and could not do it. Miriam volunteered for the job! The dog’s name was Duchess and she was a cute little terrier mix. 

 

    Miriam arrived at the vet and immediately entered a waiting room in total chaos. Dogs were barking, cats were cowering, and an occasional animal would poop or pee on the floor requiring their owners to clean up the mess. Duchess cowered under Miriam’s chair and shook violently with fear of the other animals and the vet too! Miriam said she felt a little bit proud because “her” dog was not causing any trouble. She was a good, well-behaved dog, not like these other animals! She says she was really feeling like she was so blessed to have such a trouble-free dog and was glad Duchess was behaving so much better than the others!

 

   When they finally called Miriam and Duchess to see the vet, she took Duchess by the lease and dragged her into the exam room. Immediately after entering the exam room Duchess decided to poop on the floor. The doctor then instructed Miriam to pick up the dog and put her on the table and to then clean up the mess. Suddenly Miriam panicked and she was overcome with fear. She had not been prepared for this and immediately froze and backed up against the wall. The doctor again repeated his requests and Miriam could only mutter these words, as she continued to push her back against the wall: “That’s not my dog!”

 

     Have you ever found yourself in a position of fear because of a situation you were not familiar with caused you to freeze up and not function properly? Are there certain situations you are just not comfortable with and don’t know how to respond the way you wish you could? I am sure you can all think of something like that. But what do we do when confronted by fear or uncertainty? 

 

    In the Scripture above Moses is charging Joshua to be strong and of good courage. What was Joshua faced with? Well, he was in charge of 2 million people who were getting ready to invade a region of many different tribes of peoples and armies with fortified cities that were not going to let his people waltz on in and take over the land where they live. No, they were going to fight!

 

   Moses’ advice to Joshua is as good for you and I when we are faced with a daunting task to accomplish or a personal fear to overcome. Our God will be with us no matter the circumstance of difficulty that is in our face and causing us to tremble a little, or a lot. If Jesus is your Lord and Savior, He resides in you, and goes with you wherever you go and He will “never leave you nor forsake you!”

 

 

    Jesus when He gave His last instructions to His disciples, He ended with these words: “I am with you always, even to the end of the age.” (Matthew 28:20b)

 

 

PRAY

 

1.     Lord, help me today to remember that You have promised to never leave me nor forsake me. I know I can trust in You!

2.     Fill me with Your Spirit today and guide me along whatever path You have chosen for me and help me to be obedient to all that You require of me today.

3.     Lord, give Me courage to boldly tell someone today, how You have changed my life for good, and how You have blessed me with your lovingkindness and mercy.